Tuesday 2 May 2017

Failed Relationship

                                                     
These days the most common thing we listen is about failed relationships​, divorce, annulments leading to depression and suicide. Breaking up with someone after having a long term relationship is emotionally taxing but that doesn't mean one should end his/her life. It is more ugly and painful for some who know their relationship​ is rotting and dying with no love and respect left between them, but they still continue carrying those load on their shoulders as they lack strength and find it emotionally triggering to end a long time relationship, which further leads to depression and emotional turmoil in their lives, they keep trying to get everything back and their relationship better like before but that never happens,because only things when broken can be fixed that too leaving scars on them ,but a relationship​ can never be fixed even if you try so, the most easy way is to "MOVE ON.." There is no reward life will give you to continue something which doesn't bring you happiness and contentment.
It do takes a lot of effort to come out and let go of an emotional love relationship but one should accept life as it is and put in great efforts to heal themselves, one should learn to cope up with it An end sometimes is not an end but can be a new beautiful beginning.
  • Allow your heart and mind to accept the reality that, that it's really over between you two...realize the reasons why you both ended it up? accept it and move on. 
  • Don't let any guilt, bitterness and regret linger you, avoid all those negative thoughts in mind. 
  • Know your worth, nothing in this world can be compromised with your self respect, and your inner happiness. You are your own beautiful self. 
  • Talk with friends about it and let go on those teary emotions flow from your heart. 
  • Meet new people, make new friends. 
  • Remodel yourself, go for an outing, spend time with family, try to indulge yourself in activities and sports which always inspired you. 
Don't be depressed and end up your life because even that can't bring you both together and rewind everything.Learn to live your life for your own self. If you failed in relationship it doesn't state that you can never love again or build a new one. Start your life afresh, just remember you only had a FAILED RELATIONSHIP but you definitely not have a failed life. So, "LET BYGONES BE BYGONES" and move on...life is one realize your worth and live it most beautifully as you can.




7 comments:

  1. Good thought and very nicely expressed...I have become your follower

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  2. Good thought and very nicely expressed...I have become your follower

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  3. Well written. Clarity of thoughts is visible. I hope it is practised as well

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