"NO"

"NO" is not just a word but it defines courage and audacity. It is always hard to say NO and accept NO. So, either we hate it saying to someone we are close to or fear the consequences of what will happen if someone doesn't accept it. But not saying no frequently can be destructive and this happens with everyone. In extreme situations, we even get caught in an endless loop in which we have an ever increasing outrageous circumstances with no real value of our own selves. We stop thinking about our selves and start living to please others. We even have fear of confrontation and just to avoid building up wrong equation with someone we  tend to say YES instead of NO.

Whats wrong in saying NO? and why even do you need to give an explanation for it? we all have right to choose and there are things which you need to do only for you. Remember even if you try you can't please every single person around you. It is your life and your decision if you don't like something say No, if you don't want to go for a party say No, If you don't feel comfortable in someone's company say No. Being honest about your wants and needs will make your more successful and stress free in life. It will always make your relationships more livelier and happy.

So, next time learn to say "NO".

You are not my story but still a beautiful memory...

Breakups rarely sounds easy and clean. Specially when you were so close to a person once before and where there can be situations in which you have to be around your ex. It can be difficult to engage with that person, but having a mature and respectful relationship with your ex can be the best way to make it painless and for keeping peace within.


How will i greet you if i ever meet you again? Do you still have that irritating habit of yours? Have you been able to accomplish all your undone goals? There can be many untold and unanswered questions you want to hear from your ex. These at a point will make you sad and lonelier day by day making you freakish and linger in the past and who says you can't be friends with each other.


I think as long as your behavior is appropriate and doesn't hamper your peace or favor your ex over your current partner, your friends, family and children, keeping up good terms with your ex can appropriately be a good thing. Knowing that you still have a living friendship is one of the nicest feelings because after all your ex meant so much at one point. Some people get devastated by breakups and they cut them off and disengage their exes from all sources of contacts which practically make them more worse rather than making them mentally stable.


This may be the hardest thing to do after your relationship has ended but everyone deserves to be happy. Holding grudges and not having a clean mentality is never going to help you come out of the past. Show them that you can be happy for them, being friendly with your ex will always benefit you at the end. You not only will be peaceful within yourself but have a positive and cordial relationship with your ex partner with whom you had lived the best moments of your life.

Why a lot happens only over a coffee

The two most dictated words that starts with the alphabet C are Coffee and Conversations. Is Coffee a drink?, a conversation liquid? or a divine potion? I always wonder why world's best conversations and decisions are made around the coffee table. We even reach out to it as our friend for our 3 am worries.I would have never known this until i came to know about some which i call #CoffeeSecrets.

Today while grabbing my cup of coffee it seemed to me like never before, it was not my normal evening beverage but actually i realized what betterment it gave to my nerves. How its caffeine drove my mind making it calmer and alert while giving me an extra zap of energy. I felt comforted and at an ease from all those murmurings happening in my mind.

#CoffeeSecrets: Coffee creates a perfect possibility to have a deep thinking and solution for all kinds of emotional dilemmas whether we are alone or with friends. Sipping on coffee creates the precise mixture of getting into slow and calm conversations.Caffeine present in it has always been known as a chemical compound that stimulates the thoughts and body and this is why we always opt for visiting a coffee house to make conversations.Coffee has developed a great friendship between us and it. From having "my time" to gathering with friends, from sharing sorrows to those giggles,coffee covers all your best moments and conversations and now i understand why i see a catchline at coffee house stating "a lot happens over coffee".