Monday 26 February 2018

You are not my story but still a beautiful memory...

Breakups rarely sounds easy and clean. Specially when you were so close to a person once before and where there can be situations in which you have to be around your ex. It can be difficult to engage with that person, but having a mature and respectful relationship with your ex can be the best way to make it painless and for keeping peace within.


How will i greet you if i ever meet you again? Do you still have that irritating habit of yours? Have you been able to accomplish all your undone goals? There can be many untold and unanswered questions you want to hear from your ex. These at a point will make you sad and lonelier day by day making you freakish and linger in the past and who says you can't be friends with each other.


I think as long as your behavior is appropriate and doesn't hamper your peace or favor your ex over your current partner, your friends, family and children, keeping up good terms with your ex can appropriately be a good thing. Knowing that you still have a living friendship is one of the nicest feelings because after all your ex meant so much at one point. Some people get devastated by breakups and they cut them off and disengage their exes from all sources of contacts which practically make them more worse rather than making them mentally stable.


This may be the hardest thing to do after your relationship has ended but everyone deserves to be happy. Holding grudges and not having a clean mentality is never going to help you come out of the past. Show them that you can be happy for them, being friendly with your ex will always benefit you at the end. You not only will be peaceful within yourself but have a positive and cordial relationship with your ex partner with whom you had lived the best moments of your life.


"NO"

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