True Blue

Being true-blue in this grey world is difficult because we live in a world where selfishness rules over. Today people lack honesty and loyalty in their relationship, i am not being pessimist but this is reality, the main objective of relationship these days is only personal gain. The morality of people is almost dead, even in their thoughts they keep thinking about fulfilling their own selfish desires. But i believe being a good human being is one's ability to stay loyal and honest even when people around you are not. This is what even our granth Ramayana,Mahabharata and Gita teaches:

                        " || Ahimsa Satyamakrodhastyaga Shantirapaishunam

                             Dayaa Bhuteshvalolatvam mardavam hreerachapalam ||" 

That is what you are born for sticking yourself to be good and doing good deeds without hurting anyone, leaving bad thoughts and bad practices to achieve self- realization. 

• Be supportive and help people specially your friends without any mean interest and using them for something bad later. Try to be generous always.
• Talking behind people's back is the worst thing to do, it is same like backstabbing someone. If any relation of yours whether with family or friends is going through a rough phase you should try and communicate with the person directly and share your feelings.Your honesty to sort things calmly can even change their minds.
• Give honest opinion to people when they have doubt or they are not able to choose the right ones.Don't cheat them, if you too don't have an idea about it tell them directly that you can't help instead of fooling them for mockery.
• The most common problem we go through is sometimes balancing our loyalties. Like being loyal to one friend of yours is making you disloyal towards other. In fact this happens between two family members too, whom to support and whom to support not, but in that case the best thing you can do is be honest and unbiased in your decisions of sticking with one.Judge both of them equally, don't pick any one side just for flattery. Listen the matter of both ends and then decide whom you think you should support. 
• The most strongest trait of your character for being in a love relationship is your loyalty towards them. You should just stick through thick and thin with your partner even in bad times. Sharing everything with them honestly will help you build a stronger and longer relationship.
• Never set any rules for people around you to live up to your expectations. This will make you frustrated and that's where all negative thoughts will come into your mind, hence making you a pessimist personality. Never keep expectations from people.
• Don't hold grudges with people and play games of tit for tat. Remember you are no one to punish them for their deeds. In fact you are only going to ruin your personality by doing that. Learn to forget and forgive.

Loyalty is not restricted only to your relationships with people around you but it also includes being honest about your thoughts and feelings. Even when you make decisions and compromise with your life you have to be loyal in doing it in every possible way. There are plenty of things in life that we can't control, specially other people's mind and thoughts. If someone is so, it is because he/she chose to be like that. You should not start behaving like them. Be loyal and genuine for purity of your own soul and mind, that's the only reason enough for being true-blue irrespective of all that i wrote above.